It came in the mail...

the first proposed settlement from his lawyer to mine. While it lists mostly what I want, my lawyer and I agree that no one in their right mind would give me what I want that easy. He's hiding something. Why would you send off a settlement without handing over the discovery paperwork first? I told my lawyer that was ok and we'd wait. He was in agreement. Nice to know, someone has my back.

I also found out he's not cooperating with his lawyer. Which, could make things difficult. I can't get back in the house either. If I can't get a date to get back in, I WILL show up with the cops. Just keep pushing me. Oh, and I will show up with the most fearful people he knows. I'm done and now I mean business.

Oh yeah, the thing I find most interesting is the fact that I heard through the grapevine that he is paying $275-$325 per hour for this broad. The settlement is riddled with spelling errors and incomplete sentences. HA. Another proven fact that just because the price is higher, doesn't mean the quality is that good.

I had the day off yesterday. That was spent on the phone with the gas company making sure that the service is now out of my name and that I'm getting a refund. Seeing that the brother in law was so nice in paying ahead when the account was in my name, I got the money. That makes up for half the house payment I made when I wasn't allowed back in my place. That refund should come next week, then I can pay off my credit card. Thanks Guys. I knew I'd get some of it back!

I also re-packed some stuff. When we moved me, we literally just tossed stuff in bags and moved. I didn't know where half my things were, actually still don't. Now, I've got good boxes and I'm packing stuff up and labeling it. I was doing that yesterday morning.

My new item for my new life this week was a box of six earth-toned mixing bowls from Sam's Club last night. I'll buy one new item a week and I'll be good to go.

I also got my hair done last night. My stylist and I chatted about the pitfalls of dating. I can't say that I've been out dating but I've been testing the waters to see what is out there. I can tell you, its not looking promising. I finally agreed to go to dinner with this guy I had been exchanging emails with. He tells me that he can't go out to eat because he gets nervous and wants to order in at his place. I'm like..no. I've ignored him since.

Based on that, I've been hanging with my friends and going from there. Thursday night, my friend and I hit a party in the city then went to a restaurant I've been dying to try. I look at all the stuff I've done in the last two and half months since I've been gone and I'm out and about. Sometimes I wonder what they are doing but then again I'm sure it consists of nothing but staying home and watching George Lopez or Orange County Choppers. Again, that is what HE wanted.