Updating my life....

last weekend I was at a hip east coast destination for the weekend. Not gonna lie, I loved it and left most of my money there. I was doing well for the weekend. Hit two sample sales, shopped some..rule of thumb..stores we don't have here or bought there because the stores originated there....either way. I was doing well money management wise until...Monday morning...

I hit the mega shoe sale and came home with two pairs of D&G shoes. Yep. I scored big on the East Coast.

While I was out last weekend I hit a ultra hip bar and may or may not have had too much to drink, which resulted in ....yep, drunk dialing. I drunk dialed drummer boy. Which resulted in a conversation that went back n forth as to why we aren't together blah blah blah. Which, in turn, resulted in small conversation this past week.

Yesterday, I was in the 'hood and decided to give him a text. I figured I could stop by and say hi. I called him and he answered told him I was around told him I could stop by but it couldn't be for long...he told me not to bother. Then he started brushing me off. Telling me to get my act together and we could be something. About an hour after I got off the phone with him I had an unknown number come up on my phone, I didn't answer it. I knew what it was. It had to be the girlfriend he was with. I've gotten those calls before and besides, stuff wasn't adding up right.

Always go with your gut.

This morning he texts me saying that we should start over from day one if we are ever gonna have a shot at working out. We exchange text messages for a bit. A friend suggested I change my facebook picture to one that I took this weekend. I hesitated, then I did and within minutes...Drummer boy had requested to be my friend.

Now...if you are in a relationship with someone and you are asking an ex girlfriend to be your facebook friend but told your ex girlfriend that you weren't dating anyone but had her all over your facebook profile and stated that you were in a relationship with someone else...why would you do this...

He did.

The only way I got half the info that I did was by telling him facebook was blocked for me at work. Then I started digging. Found out he was in a relationship for over a year, the car he had come picked me up in twice was hers...that they were gonna get married...she was the love of his life...that they were trying out for the AMAZING RACE...which was MY idea!!! fucker...and it goes on...

So then I asked him about the relationship, he told me that he only dated her for a week..then all of a sudden things started to change on his profile..he was now single.. Her facebook statuses consisted of boyfriend sleeping in the other room, drummer boy this, drummer boy that...had a wonderful dinner with drummer boy and his mom...wow...Nothing from him shocks me anymore except the fact that he was this stupid to leave all this out here for me to see.

I told him on IM that she should keep her profile private after I messaged him some statuses and said I see you are in an established relationship, I wish you the best of luck, take care. Never heard another word outta him for the rest of the day.

I could have blown him out of the water and taken our conversation and emailed her with it. But I figured, she'll have enough problems on her hands soon enough. Besides, I am by far the best looking girl he's ever dated...this girl...ugh..she obviously has self esteem issues because she is not all that attractive. And drummer boy...yeah, not as cute as he once was. Sadly, I'm not angry anymore...I really am numb to his actions, they don't surprise me. I just thought that after how sneaky he could be...that he wouldn't have let all that info out.

I just feel sorry for her that she's been able to make it a year now and she still has high hopes for their relationship. He obviously hasn't changed. I'll just wait for her call. She'll figure it out eventually. I just wonder what he told her to get her to change her facebook to private. Because I'm blocked from everything from them now. MMMM....