Homeless.

Its a Saturday morning and I'm at work. Not that I want to be its just that I get more done when I'm alone. Other than blog here.

Its official, I'm no longer a homeowner. Since the ex and I refinanced and went with chase, I was able to keep track of the payments via my bank log in. That is how I knew he was making the payments long after I left. Per the divorce decree, the ex had 90 days to refi the house or put it on the market. I knew the date in my mind. Between Christmas and New Years, he sent me documents to sign to get my name off. I signed them, mailed them back and heard nothing.

The date came and went. I did nothing. The sheer thought of spending more money to go back to court made me sick. And lets face it. I'm in no financial shape for a mortgage right now. So I let it slide a few days.

Then I found my balls and I sent him a text. Did you refi the house. Immediately he sent a text back. I was shocked. His responses where short. I didn't expect a long drawn out response. Honestly, I was thrilled he sent a text back and that I didn't have to take his ass back to court.
I then asked him if he was still pissed at me -- his response came back simply saying no. I thanked him and told him to have a good weekend and to take care.

No. Not that I want him to be pissed at me but it was a sure fire sign it was way over. It had been for years. But now, its really over. Done. I have no more ties to a former life.

My next goal is to totally eliminate my former last name. I'd say on the scale of progress, I'm sitting at a 85%. I still need to take care of my passport and a former email account that we shared. Which, I started to do last night. Then there will be nothing left.

Speaking of cleaning out email accounts.

I was going thru my email and damn do I save everything. Out of the 400+ emails I had sitting in my gmail account, a majority were from Hollywood. I started to read some then just got mad and furious. I just started to check them all and delete them. Why read them? He did manage to send me a text from LA -- I simply said Bye. I haven't heard from him since. In true Hollywood fashion, he'll surface in a month or so. I think then I'll tell him I got married.